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What is the best gay masturbator? And while we’re at it, what exactly is a masturbator, and what makes one gay? For the purposes of this article, a masturbator is a device designed to facilitate and enhance masturbation, which is when someone sexually stimulates themself. There are strokers, sleeves, oral sex machines, you name it. Sex toys designed for masturbation are supposed to feel better than, or different from, masturbating with your hand alone. As for what makes a masturbator gay? Well, some masturbators are marketed specifically for gay guys, and are even designed to mimic the orifices of gay porn stars. And of course, you've got CockBlock, which is specifically designed for gay, bi, curious and other penis-having couples. So… is CockBlock a Gay Masturbator? Not exactly. We know it kind of looks like one, and because you put your cocks in it, you might be tempted to call it one. But the purpose of CockBlock is not masturbation, it’s frot. That might sound like splitting hairs, but the difference is a fundamental one. CockBlock is specifically designed to allow two cocks to rub together inside it, and as such, it’s more about sex than it is about masturbation. That is until you consider the concept of "mutual masturbation", which opens a can of worms (or a block of cocks). Can a cock mutually masturbate another cock without it being sex? Is frot sex, or mutual masturbation, or both? Comments please! Furthermore, CockBlock is not exclusively aimed at gay couples. Anyone with a penis (or strap-on) can use it. So, if it's not a gay masturbator, is it a… froturbator? Masturfrotter? We’re open to suggestions here. At the risk of sounding immodest, when you are looking for a toy for two, we think CockBlock beats out conventional masturbators in a number of ways. Here are five reasons why you should start looking into a CockBlock. 1. CockBlock Is More Than A Sex Toy Sure, it’s a sex toy, but it is also, truly, a world first. CockBlock is the first sex toy designed to accommodate two cocks at the same time that aligns them in just the right way. So when we say it’s more than a gay masturbator, what we mean is that it creates a whole new category of sex toys. It’s never been done before, so… welcome to the future of sex. 2. Specifically Designed For Frotting CockBlock is made unique by its purpose: to enhance and facilitate frotting. Frot is the sexual act of rubbing your cocks together, sliding them over each other. It’s a very intimate and satisfying experience, and there is no gay masturbator that can offer what CockBlock offers. Accept no substitutes. 3. Quality Design & Packaging All you have to do is google “CockBlock reviews” to read and watch users talk about the quality of the CockBlock. Even the packaging looks cool. That matters. CockBlock seeks to create a whole new, enhanced experience. 4. It Is EXTREMELY Sexy Looking down when you’re using it with a partner, watching yourselves enter it together, it’s VERY hot. Nothing else in the world offers that. But beauty is skin deep. What makes CockBlock the world’s best sex toy for two cocks is the way it feels. With the two separate entry holes, it’s like frotting and penetrative sex all in one. It’s a block of pure sex. A block full of cock. 5. Easy Aftercare A removable, body-safe TPE sleeve inside a silicone outer-casing that pulls out in one simple piece makes CockBlock no hassle at all to keep clean. Fill it with your favorite water-based lube, use it, rinse it with soapy water, dry it and you're ready for next time. Literally wash, rinse, repeat. And That’s Why There are five reasons why we think CockBlock could make a huge positive impact on your sex life. But don’t take our word for it, feel free to go down the CockBlock rabbit hole and check out some reviews. Happy frotting.

Synchronized climaxes are really satisfying if you’re actively trying to achieve them, because when you get it right, everything stops for both of you, and you are purely and fully in the moment, together. Orgasms, though, are tricky to predict. It takes coordination and practice. You have to learn your partner, and to a degree, yourself. Today, we’ll talk you through some tips and tricks to help gay men and trans people have a simultaneous orgasm. Let’s go. Frotting Frotting is a sex act in which two or more cocks are rubbed together. It’s not penetrative sex, but it IS sex. The reason we’ve put frot at the top of this list is because it’s one of the easiest way to work up to a simultaneous orgasm. Engaging in frot facilitates everything that follows below: it permits great communication, helps synchronise your breathing, is mutually pleasurable, everything that’s needed for a coordinated simultaneous orgasm. It’s not a sex position as such. But it allows you to both find a comfortable position in which to take your time, edge as necessary, and match each other’s state of arousal. Speaking of edging… Edging Edging is the decoration around the edge of a cake. And, while that’s pretty exciting, it’s not the meaning we’re talking about here. Edging is the name we gave to the practice of intentionally delaying orgasm to prolong a sexual experience. Normally, edging is promoted in order to help you enjoy a bigger, more fulfilling climax, because delaying orgasm has the effect of enhancing it. With frotting, and when the goal is a simultaneous orgasm, edging helps you learn the physiological effects when you’re close to orgasm, and how to control those urges. Edging together, or alone, is excellent training for a simultaneous orgasm. Good Communication Sex is a dialog, that’s why they call it ‘intercourse’. Probably. Communication is central. Open and honest communication about desires, preferences, and boundaries is the bedrock of better sex. Talking about how close you are to climax, or asking your partner to wait while you catch up, helps you to time your orgasms together. Not to bang on about frotting, but frotting really is one of the best ways to do this. Preferably with a CockBlock. With the CockBlock between your bodies, and both of you inside it together, you can talk directly, face to face, about how close you are. Erotic Stimulation We’ve made frotting sound all very civilized. All this talk of good communication and eye contact, we might as well be talking about a handshake. But it doesn’t need to be like that. Frotting to erotic videos can be a really hot, sexy way to bring both of you up to orgasmic speed together, just as their addition to other forms of gay sex can also spice things up.  Introducing toys into the bedroom is also a sexy way to enhance the sensations and control your orgasms. Cock rings are useful for delaying climax. And of course there's CockBlock.  Lubrication Lube is the axle on which the wheel of sex revolves. For the sake of our purposes, simultaneous orgasms, lube is absolutely indispensable – especially if frot is your preferred technique to achieve them. Apply it liberally to your cocks  or anywhere there might be contact. Lay a towel down for easier clean up. Then frot together like it’s going out of fashion. Explore & Experiment Look, this is supposed to be fun and pleasurable. That’s all that matters. If you’re struggling to get in sync, consider it practice and look forward to trying again.    Make it a playful challenge, but don’t take it too seriously. While a simultaneous orgasm is an explosively enjoyable experience, there should be no destination to sex. It’s about the journey.

We don’t really consider the CockBlock toy to be a ‘male masturbator,’ at least not in the conventional sense. Why is that? And what makes it different? Oh, and while we’re at it… what is frotting?

As all colloquial sex terms do, the meaning of the word 'frot' has changed over time. Before the turn of the millennium, it meant the rubbing of the penis against any surface. If you were lying on your front watching Netflix and felt a pang of desire, it’s because you were frotting with the carpet.